Indications in the last 48 hours of the heated row beginning to cool have offered hope that a peaceful conclusion can be reached.
And although Carruthers continues to be riled by the SRU withholding a six-figure payment Edinburgh are demanding, he is also hoping an end is within reach, and dialogue with McKie will be essential.
"I think what's very important is that this shouldn't be characterised as a fall-out between Gordon McKie and I," Carruthers said.
"I've never called for Gordon's resignation or anything like that, so I don't have a personal problem with Gordon McKie."
Carruthers has not held back in his criticism of the SRU. He was angered by the decision earlier this year to shut down Border Reivers without consulting Edinburgh, and just as dismayed by demands to release players for Scotland duty for months on end, even in a World Cup year.
Edinburgh refused their 12 Scotland players permission to train with the national team on July 2 but have since released them to head coach Frank Hadden.
Carruthers said: "When we bought this club it was one of three professional clubs and we were told that the idea was to build back to the four that Scotland used to have.
"That would give us an inter-district championship and all sorts of options.
"What happened in practice is that they immediately closed one of the clubs as soon as we were in the door, without consultation or bringing us into the fold to say, 'Look we're going to do this'.
"So we've got a situation where for professional rugby there's no clear vision as to where this game is going.
"Really what we want is a dialogue that addresses that.
"We pay the wages for a substantial number of the Scotland players, and it can't be fair that the SRU can come and take those players for as long as they like, whenever they like, leaving us without enough people to even train."